Monday, June 21, 2010

THE WEDDING WISH

Sometimes you don’t start relationships. Sometimes they start you.

Some things are bound to happen. Even if you try hard for them to not happen or occur, even if they fall apart and even if you spoil everything to the core, they just happen, and that too for the best! And the whole sole reason for them to turn out great is cause of the honesty and pureness in your relationship.
And to own a relationship of that type, I feel blessed! So, “AB”…thanks! TONS!

Okay so as per my birth certificate, I’m 20 years old; way too young to think about weddings and their happenings...still I do fantasize them! A lot! I love the feeling of the great Indian *big fat cliché* sort of wedding where the bride is the only one eyed, with everybody you knew from the day you were born around you, blessing you and awesome! The full idea is just too beautiful!

It’s the day, that one day when every girl wishes to be extraordinarily beautiful, all the hopes of turning into a woman from just a girl, the desire for being a princess for the special one, the “Mr. Perfect”, and to enter a new phase of life with showers of love and blessing form one and all. A new stage of life where you grow from a sister to a sister in law, a daughter to daughter in law and a wife! So much strings to be attached.WOW!

But all of this involves a lot of stones to be turned, mainly parting with your childhood and memories.
This feeling of leaving over the place where you opened your eyes, cried, laughed, been pampered, skinned your knees while crawling, ran all over the house, sang awfully and still everybody clapped for you, scribbled over the walls and anything and everything, is jittering. Moreover, the only thing that creates a void are the missing moments of fights, arguments, each hug, and every second of happiness and love with your parents and siblings.
A new home, a new family at the other end of this beautiful affair awaits you for its completeness, and every minute of their future happiness depends on you, and this is exactly what makes us realize that moving over from one phase of life to the other is a necessity.

Well, all this caught my mind because of a wedding. HAS TO BE! And to be precise AB’s sister wedding. An important one and the one I’m really looking forward to.
I don’t know what made me pen down everything present in my mind, but yes with each word, the smile grew on my face and I really wanted to express my feelings, and my wishing, the other way.

So, ‘Dee’…It’s set! The day, the date, the stage and the preparations are done too! A new life, new relations, a bond of love, faith, trust and dreams is about to unfold for you. All I wish for you is happiness, love and luck. May you have a sooper-ly blessed and a loving married life and god showering you both with happiness, always! And yes, you have the best brother by your side and henceforth happiness has to revolve around you.
Though I haven’t met you, but I’ve heard you and about you and I’m excitedly looking forward to see you. Soon. Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS once again!!

P.S. This one’s for you, AB…I’m lucky to have you around :)

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