RELATIONSHIPS WE CHOOSE

I was just wondering whether we were given a choice to choose our parents or siblings. I could not find any firm conclusion to it, but almost 95% part of me believes in being gifted with them; rather than being given a choice.

At some or the other stage in life, we dislike our parents. We don’t really hate them, because hate indeed is a very huge word, but we dislike them. We all did. And that era of nonsense-striking-every-mind is the teenage period. Or as Katy Perry’s song goes ~ la la la Teenage drama~.

 

Siblings on the other hand are our twins with some year gap! If not really-actually twins! Anyway, we never ever get any hard feeling or any envious feeling for them, cause they are our closest and precious-est treasures. But taking some error in consideration, 5% end up hating their siblings too.

Friends can’t be included in this, because they are totally chosen by us. Here, ’Us’ includes: our ego, our feelings, our mind, and our heart.

 

So I don’t know if the choice ever existed, but then none of us dislike our own thing, or anything we chose for ourselves. So I guess God gifted us our parents and siblings. Aaah! I think I’ve justified my statements as such. But I know I’m creating an illusion by using words like gifted and dislike for the same aspect, but then the lord is never wrong! Hello! He is THE GOD! Like THE ALMIGHTY! And we, some-monkey-transformed-into-human, have to be unsatisfied with everything that comes our way. Be it our parents. So after all that we go through, some hard times and some teenage-drama, we land back on the correct path, just to realize that we have the BEST parents and the BEST siblings.

 

But, we still are left with some places to be filled in our lives. Like our soul-mate/lover/best friend and sister-or-brother from another mother! And these are the ones we choose. I almost wrote 250 words just to come to my point; about the siblings we were never gifted! Or the ones god forgot to give us. Or simply, the choice we were given.

As I mentioned in my last post, my best friends have that STATUS in my heart. But along with them, there is somebody else who isn’t really my best friend, or of my age, but still is an integral part of my sibling clan! Simmi/Samurai/Samaritee/ or anything-everything I call her, is my other little sister, I own! A neighbor, my sister’s best friend, a little kid who grew up in front of my eyes, a girl being transformed to a pretty lady, or from a rebellious, silent teenager to a loud, happy-go-lucky adult; I’ve seen all of her.

 

I thought of writing something for her on her birthday, but then her birthday shopping kept me busy! And now when she was furious; over some petty issues between a big sister and a kid sister; I thought of surprising her, like making up to her. Though she won’t be surprised totally, but it’ll do for a while. I guess!

 

So, Sim baby; I’m sorreee!! Lets Patch-up! Lets KISS and MAKE-UP! I love you, though not more than Shee (sorry!), but definitely not less than her too. J